Who looks after the dog or cat? This is a question that many couples ask themselves when they break up. For good reason, pet care can be just as conflicting as child care. This is why a large number of French people consider making special arrangements for their little companion in the event of separation.
In detail, 71% of “pet parents” in Europe are in favor of the idea of including their animal in the marriage contract, according to a Rover survey. Because the question of custody can become conflicting, especially if the dog or cat has been acquired by the couple. The ex-partners are both owners of the furball: they must therefore determine together who will have custody of it, or decide on an alternation. 36% of French people say they are ready to consider shared custody to avoid any disputes.
These figures attest to the deep love that owners feel for their animals. They consider him a full member of the family, even a child substitute. Nearly three-quarters of French people believe that taking care of a dog, a cat or another animal is excellent preparation for parenthood. Restless nights, potty training and dealing with unexpected situations give them a taste of life with an infant.
These little life companions also allow you to test the strength of the couple. Life with a pet requires a financial and personal investment. For example, you have to make sure he doesn't lack food, do more cleaning because of hair, plan appointments with the veterinarian or even think about child care during the holidays. Little things to think about that can quickly become topics of argument. 28% of French people admit that the presence of an animal at home generates significant tension within their relationship. In some cases, these differences can even lead to a breakup.
This is why couples must think about all the scenarios before taking on an animal, including a bird or a fish. A pet is a long-term responsibility, with some breeds living more than ten years. The French are aware of this: 73% of them see this as a more serious commitment than marriage.
Countries like Spain and Portugal have decided to legislate on these issues so that the fate of the pet is taken into greater account in the event of the separation of a couple. Europe is not there yet, even if the 80 million furry, feathered and scaly companions who populate Europe are legally considered “living beings endowed with sensitivity”. Animal rights associations are campaigning for the law to offer better legal protection to our animal friends. This would reduce the possibility of conflict in the event of separation of the “pet parents”, and prevent the animal from paying the price.
